Father’s Day Advice from these Digital Dads
Did you know that the generation that grew up
on the buzzing sounds of dial-up internet is now officially grown up and
running the world. In fact, not a few of them are already full-fledged fathers.
So we threw a couple of these digital dads a fun, hypothetical question: If
they could go a few years back in time (back when 3G was new and their own
fathers weren’t yet on Facebook), what advice would they give to themselves on
how to survive being a father?
Ian Bacungan, theroguewriter.net/ DWDD
Message for his younger self : “Remember,
acceptance freed me and
helped me survive fatherhood. Honestly, at first, I was so afraid. I am not
prepared to be a father. I am afraid that I won’t be able to support the needs
of my children. I was also thinking that party days and good times are over.
“Accepting the reality that I will already be a
father helped me become a better man and eventually, a better father. Accepting
fatherhood gave me a sense of direction and responsibility. Acceptance made me
feel a stronger bond between me and my kids. After all, party days are not
over, fathers like me should just know out limits and priorities.”
Bacungan is a loving husband and father to two
kids. Aside from blogging, he is also a radio anchor and a digital media
specialist.
Marco Rafael, m2comms.com
Message for his younger self: “My best
advice would be, to face everything that happens and not worry about it too
much. I know there are a lot of worries, fears, and anxieties involved with
becoming a father. ‘What if she grows up a misfit?’ ‘What if she doesn't like
me as a father?’ ‘What if I don't give her a proper life?’ Well, what if you
just shut it, man up, and be a father to your daughter? Don't try to overthink
stuff. Be the best dad that you can be. Experience not just the pleasures and
joy of being a father but also the pains. How else would you explain to your 4
year-old daughter that her beloved grandfather has passed away?”
Marco Rafael is the creative director of
digital agency M2 Communications.
Eli Villagonzalo, Elifestylemanila.com
Message for his younger self: “I keep
thinking: If I could have strived more during the earlier days, maybe if I
tried to work abroad, or climbed the corporate ladder earlier, or been more
aggressive at work, or devoted more time and persistence... But honestly, I
have no regrets, only that life could have been much better if I had faced the
tougher days when I was younger. So that’s what I would tell myself.”
Photography
and writing is Villagonzalo’s passion.
Azrael
Coladilla, azraelsmerryland.blogspot.com
Message for his younger self: "Good job for
making the best decision for yourself and your family. You might feel like
you’re not ready, but you’re going to do great as a young father and husband. Kudos
to you, and more power for your future!"
Coladilla is a
full-time blogger, freelance photographer, social media manager, co-founder of
ToyCon and digital marketing consultant.
Brian Herrera, media-meter.net
Message for his younger self: “It won’t be easy, but it will be the
best thing that will ever happen to you. In the course of your fatherhood, you
will enjoy every single day of being a dad.”
Herrera is the general manager of Media Meter,
a real-time, quad-media monitorin g service.
Enzo Luna, juanmanilaexpress.com
Message for his younger self: “I don't have any
regrets having to raise my two kids, and so surviving fatherhood wasn’t a tough
job for me. But if I have to go back in time and have a heart-to-heart talk to
my young self, I would say to him: ‘Love your kids even more, no matter what
they do or what becomes of them. Just keep it cool raising your kids.’
“To date, I don't have big problems with my kids.
Their mom and I, we taught them to be responsible and independent at their
young age. I'm glad they're growing up well.”
Luna,
a former bar promoter, now runs magazine-themed blog Juan Manila Express.
And to
all dads out there - If you could travel slightly
back in time, what would you tell yourself?
Happy
Father’s Day!
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