The 4 Wonders of Casual Dating
One time I had a long chat
with a friend on love and relationship. On my part, I gave up on dating and
finding love a long time ago. Well, it seems like a long time ago, I reckon
love will come even if I don’t look for it. But on my friend’s part, love and
relationship is everything to her. I envy her sometimes because she’s the type
of person who’s always in a relationship and is even successful on finding lots
of dates via adult dating sites although once she meets
the one she really like she forget all about the others who wants to meet her.
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For her being in a
relationship is being in love and there’s nothing casual about it. But lately
she’s bemoaning why any of her relationship is a failure in the end. I bluntly
told her it’s because she always gave her all for it and that’s kind of scary
for a guy. Then I suggested she should try casual dating for a change then
maybe she wouldn’t feel too much pressure in finding the One.
Afterwards, she seems to be successful
in casual dating and she’s even dishing out its advantages and how wonderful it
is. And wouldn’t you know it, there is someone she is constantly dating now and
it seem to be headed to the altar.
Here are the four things she
realized when she decided to try casual dating:
Casual dating is not all
about you.
Turning to adult dating sites
and sex
dating sites on her first foray to casual dating, she realized,
over many casual dates, that even with a good profile attach to her name, she
is not a perfect match to every other members. But it’s fine with her, unlike
in the past when she tends to overthink about a date thus ended up overdoing
everything.
There’s always someone better out there
Casual dating gives you the
realization that there is always someone better out there. By seeing not just
only one person, you can explore and even let your dates know what you want and
that you’re open to possibilities. There is no exclusivity involve and you’re
just seeing where things go.
Casual
dating lets you enjoy the chase
If you’re
into finding dates thru adult dating sites, you know that the people you meet
there are the ones you are genuinely
interested in based in their profile. You may or may not click when you meet
but since both of you are old and broad-minded enough, you can just simply
enjoy the date and of course, the chase without the guilt and worry whether or
not you are liked.
Casual Dating Gives you the
chance to meet people not your ‘type’
Sometimes the people you are
drawn too are people who aren’t ready to be emotionally involved the way you
want too. But you still keep finding yourself emotionally entangled with that
person because he is your type, not seeing that the relationship is doomed from
the start. With casual dating, you can meet more diverse people. Allow yourself
to be open-minded and see that with many choices, you can find the right guy
for you.
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