Dr. Paolo Bellosillo 5 Tips to protect yourself from Heartbreak
Being
in love is the happiest feelings in the world, so they say. Meeting someone
then falling in love feel like you are destined together and its fate why you
meet each other in the right time. But being happily in love is not for
everyone. Most of the time you meet someone and they break your heart into a
million pieces and you start to wonder, "why me?"
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With
Valentine Day fast approaching, love is all we can think of and many are busy
preparing what to do on that special day. But what about the others suffering
from heartbreak? We decided to ask Dr. Paolo Bellosillo who is known for
advocating living a quality life to share his thoughts on how you can protect
your heart from the greatest stressor in life, a heartbreak.
What are the qualities
that a woman should look for in a guy?
A
woman needs to look for someone whose God fearing because if a man fears God,
he will be loyal, faithful, committed, responsible, and honest. These are
traits that any woman should want for in a man. A man like this will never make
you worry or fear that he will go astray.
What are the
qualities that a man should look for in their future partners?
A
man needs to look for a woman who is capable of being their partner in life,
not just in the bedroom. They need to find someone with a humble heart and
someone who prioritizes their relationship over their pride.
How can you have a
relationship that is good for both parties?
A
relationship that preserves the dignity of the other person is always a good
indication. When there is mutual trust and mutual respect, when a relationship
is rooted in prayer and kindness then reinforced by communication, you know
that it is beneficial to both parties.
What are your 5
tips for a healthy, smooth sailing relationship?
1. Pray
together. When God is at the center of everything, everything will fall into
place.
2. Communicate.
As they said, almost everything can be sorted through an open and honest
communication.
3. Be
kind. If you can't be anything, if there is no more love, then at least be
kind.
4. Be
open. The two of you are not the same person which means that you will not have
the same beliefs, the same principles, and the same ideologies. In fact,
chances are big that you will have different ones so be open to understanding
how the other person works.
5. Let
go of fear. Most of the time, we react negatively because of fear.
Any tips to our
readers for this upcoming Valentine’s Day?
Valentine's
Day is primarily focused on the heart, on love but everyday should always take
that into account as love is a journey and a decision which both souls builds
on. While the whole world celebrates it, do so in a manner where it
focuses not on consumerism or material things because they fade. Be original:
play a song, sing a song, cook with love for your shared favorite dish, go to
the first place where it all began with your special someone, or go to church
and why delay it, say I DO, tie the knot. Just make sure the other is ready and
fits in the qualities and attributes of those listed above After All when you
Look Through The Eyes Of Love You Should Be Bringing Out The Best Of Me/You,
Here There and Everywhere.
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